The Happy Man Method™

My Method was devised because I met with so many Men whose lives were full, but not with the right things. They had everything you could possibly wish for EXCEPT happiness, peace of mind and real connections…

I didn’t put my Method out initially…I refined, tested, and refined it again, over many years.

Unhappiness is really just ignorance of what’s possible…

The Method consists of 3 steps (or keys).

Each step is VITAL to the process, because each key opens a different door. You must go through the first door to get to second and so on and so forth. Without opening all 3 doors in the correct order, you’ll never find, meet and get acquainted with the REAL you. This is where your true happiness and peace of mind lie.

How can we know what your soul craves if we don’t ask it…

Step/Key One: Healing Your Core Wounds.

This is our foundational step. It’s VITAL to heal your core wounds and past traumas once and for all, if you’re to be happy.

So much of your unhappiness is caused by your unhealed wounds – things that have happened in your life that you’ve never healed from – things that you’ve pushed down, distracted yourself from and ignored because you didn’t know what to do with them.

You can bandage your wounds with all manner of things, but until they’re fully healed they’ll carry on bleeding and staining your life in the most uncomfortable, inconvenient and painful ways… 

This healing step unlocks the first door and gives us the strong foundation we need to move onto the next door…

Lots of you are the wounded warrior, it’s time to heal now, so you can finally put down your sword and shield…

Step/Key Two: Getting Comfortable with your Emotions.

Emotions? – Ugh! Yes, I’m afraid so.

Make no mistake…the quality of your life is directly relatable to the quality of your emotions. Most Men try to fill their emotional holes with physical stuff…this never works. A rich life begins with your emotions, not your bank balance.

It’s only when you make friends with your emotions – the good, the bad and the ugly – that you bring the colour and depth back into your life. Emotions are not your enemy; they’re your teacher, your messenger, your ally…

When we bottle up a negative emotion it becomes toxic. These must be cleaned up before we can move on.

Once we’ve mastered your emotions, we’ve unlocked another door – and we’re ready to move onto the final, most important door.

When you over-function to avoid your feelings, you get a lot done but you still feel like a failure…

Step/Key Three: Discovering and Getting to know the REAL you.

Because of their conditioning, the majority of Men have been hiding behind a mask for most of their lives. In this final step, we discover who the man behind the mask REALLY is…

Your greatest source of power comes in the second half of your life, because that’s where all your wisdom and perspective is. To access that power we need to open your heart. Most men DEEPLY fear this.

That’s why they become chronic over-thinkers…they THINK so they don’t have to FEEL. Your head can lie…it can play tricks on you, but your heart never lies to you.

When we open up your (healed) heart you’re able to remove your mask. That’s when you FINALLY discover the REAL you.

In step 3 we connect your head and your heart, so you can start living as the man you were always meant to be….

When it comes to happiness, if you’re just in your head you’re dead, you need to be in your heart so you’re smart…

THE METHOD’S 3 STEP FORMULA RELEASES THE KEYS THAT UNLOCK THE DOORS TO YOUR HAPPINESS…

YOU MUST HEAL

YOU MUST FEEL

AND YOU MUST BE REAL

THEN YOU GAIN ACCESS TO THE DEEP CONTENTMENT YOU’VE BEEN LONGING FOR…